Why do people misidentify control as love? Here are three ways to answer that question. Not everything that looks like love to begin with actually turns out to be true. Sometimes, what feels intense ...

Control struggles between partners are often the ruin of a couple. But what is a battle for “control” in the context of a relationship? When I introduce this concept in couple’s therapy, there is ...

As a couples counselor, clinical psychologist, and someone who asks friends about intimate details of their marriages as frequently as others ask friends about their weekend plans, I think I have ...